as married couples, how do u keep ur parents (all 4) out of ur married life?

[Dushwari]

Re: as married couples, how do u keep ur parents (all 4) out of ur married life?

thanks, u are right in many things u say. i will recall ur advice in time :>

@Khaloo_Khalil

Dear Dushwari, Assalaam-o-Alekum. One only needs to manage things. Here is what I have been doing to manage my married life. 1- The parents and In-laws must be clearly, politely, and respectfully told NOT to interfere. The manner must be such that nobody objects. 2- Never ever interfere in the marital life of near relations (brothers, sisters and in-laws). This will set an example. Don't let your spouse interfere. 3- Whenever there is any misunderstanding among any couple, in your near relations (God Forbid), be the first one to patch up. But DO NOT allow any party to complain about their spouse. {In my case I simply say, "Sorry I do not want to listen to that crap. Its your personal matter, and you have to resolve it. I only wish to see you guys happy."} I guess following these tips will not let you have any "dushwari" in your marital life. Good luck 2 U.