Re: as a wife would you be ok with this?
girl should definently invst the money for washing machine
no matter who uses it'll remain her property and she can bring it with her in case of her own place
usualy the washing machine is include in most girls jahaiz
and all people take benefit from it(in my case i m using all my appliences fridge'oven'microwave'washing machien etc which is from my jahaiz and every body in home use)
Re: as a wife would you be ok with this?
Lets assume girl buys washing machine, 3 years later, husband hits a jackpot, has fair amount of money to get his own new house and furnish it, while the in laws are in the same financial situation. Should the girl take the washing machine with her or leave it with in laws?
Re: as a wife would you be ok with this?
what would you do, if your parents give some money towards some furnishings in your room in your new house. you dont need to use all the money, theres quite abit left over, and your husband suggests why dony you use some of the money for a washing machine for the new house.....which your parents havent given you money for. its for your room. not to kit up your inlaws house, which yes you will also be living in. husbands reasoning is that his parents will be finding it hard to afford everything as they dont have money much at the moment. which is true. and his wages are apporx only 15000 rupees a month and washing machines are expensive and they have children to, to provide for.
DISCLAIMER-really not my problem. but from what i do know, husband isnt laalchi type. but i dont think the person whose issue this is, feels ok with parting with money given to her and her husband by her parents for their room. and feels parents didnt intend money for furnishing up the inlaws house. they have already given some money to inlaws to buy a gift for the house anyway.
so would wives be ok with this?
at least then when your undies need to be washed, no one can complain or you can take your washing machine back
Re: as a wife would you be ok with this?
Btw how much does a washing machine cost in pak?
Re: as a wife would you be ok with this?
Lets assume girl buys washing machine, 3 years later, husband hits a jackpot, has fair amount of money to get his own new house and furnish it, while the in laws are in the same financial situation. Should the girl take the washing machine with her or leave it with in laws?
hmmm...
then gir should leave washing machine for them
it seems cheap if she take it with her in that case specialy when her husband is able to buy one