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Why is dad settling for a guy whose only 20 years old? Just because he's his nephew? Men are pretty careful about having good providers for their daughters. Wouldn't the dad at least wait until the guy was older? There are missing pieces.
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AFAIK, my cousin has a wealthy family back in Pakistan, and after the marriage, I'll be living with them. Again, I know I should be more informative, but I have a tendency to rush things.
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How is your aunt's financial situation? Is she struggling financially? Is it possible that your aunt has schemed this match up so that her son can get easier access into America, Canada, wherever you live?
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Well, her and her family are wealthy, but it's under threat for some reason. I don't know the full details, my family often keeps me in the dark.
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crystle where r u frm usa/uk/canada?
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USA.
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y not sit n spk to ur parents n cme to a compromise, like say ok im happy to get married so long as i can finish my education here (wherever u live) n then i will go n live in pak
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I've asked them before, and they say they are willing to wait a few months only. They are in a rush.
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No, its not violent(depending on where ur frm) is it a village or city?wat area?
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It's right near Lahore.
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Do you accept or refuse? Well, I'm confused because you said that your marriage has already been arranged. That seems to imply that you weren't give much choice in the matter. But if you have been given a choice, and you don't want to get married, then please refuse.
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Well I can refuse, but I will basically be exiled from my family. They'll just basically throw me out, something they have said to me actually.