Re: Arranged to marry at 16, not feeling right...
Dont do it. I'm half russian but I was raised completely as a Pakistani girl and I still had a lot of problems marrying someone from back there... its just a huge culture clash.. even between two full blooded pakistanis one from back home and one from here... just imagine how its gonna be with you living your life as a gori or whatever you are and then adjusting to all the restrictions that life in pakistan brings. To top it all off, its a marriage stemming from blackmail and one that is basically forced. Been there done that, it aint cool and it never works out. Plus you're only 16. You are not in the least bit prepared for all the pakistani politics in a family and the demands that marriage brings, especially if you'll be living with the in-laws.
I'm surprised your mother (assuming she's the nonpakistani one) is consenting to all this!
REFUSE!