No no you ALL have it wrong! He is supposed to lift her veil and sing ‘chaudvi ka chaand ho’ and then shower her with rose-petals and do her ‘tareefs’ tell her how beautiful she looks in that 7-shades-lighter-than-her-real-skin foundation, hold her hand and and tareef that, then hand her the moon dikhai present. Then tell her how much you spent on the wedding, clothes, menu etc.