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hahaha Funkydesi. U really seem pissed. Anyway, Lajawab has that effect on most ppl.
Laaj: Ur suhagraat bit was a real bad assumption on ur part. People in love don't always have their "suhaag raat" b4 marriage.
And what makes u think that people having an arranged marriage havn't had the "fun" b4 hand with someone else?
I think knowing a person b4hand is lot more better than getting to see the person for the first time on the wedding day. What makes u think that elder's choice is really "safe" and "good"?
this topic has been beaten to death again n again. if any of u feel like talking about it, i suggest u use the search option. there are already dozens of threads on arrange and love marriage.
^ Because it is an idiotic topic. Those who have never actually been in a relationship shoudl keep their traps shut about arranged vs. married.
My assumption is that you are the Mod of the C&A forum, because you are career driven and an accomplished person academically. However, it is not quite the same case for junior here.
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^ Because it is an idiotic topic. Those who have never actually been in a relationship shoudl keep their traps shut about arranged vs. married.
My assumption is that you are the Mod of the C&A forum, because you are career driven and an accomplished person academically. However, it is not quite the same case for junior here.
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Hmmm...I am glad you say that Mathui and I agree...
Now I just wish you'd practice what you preach and keep your trap shut about Islamic teachings, values, honor, education and system...In other words stay away from anything Islamic...After all, bandar kiya jaanay adrak ka maza...(It's in Urdu, sorry)...
And I find It surprising that you enter this forum as it is geared towards arranged marriage...Now, what do you know about that? Knowing from what I gather from your posts, is that you search for a mate and then copulate on the nearest haystack...No arrangement there, is there...
I am glad you are not a mod...Great things you'd have to share with Muslim Juniors...:o
Even taking your idiocy as a basis Lajoo, islam is only one religion. I practice 5 daily, hence i can have a viewpoint. THose who have never even been in a relationship shouldn't have opinions about marriage arranged or otherwise. Now..if you want ot marry your left hand..I am willing to officiate and even give you away at the "arranged" marriage.
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Even taking your idiocy as a basis Lajoo, islam is only one religion. I practice 5 daily, hence i can have a viewpoint. THose who have never even been in a relationship shouldn't have opinions about marriage arranged or otherwise. Now..if you want ot marry your left hand..I am willing to officiate and even give you away at the "arranged" marriage.
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Gobledegook...You make no sense...
Perhaps if you dropped the juvenile jokes and stopped for a second trying to be a smart-ass you can join the discussion...But no...Mathui is has to be a funny man...Well, so be it funny man...I don't care if you become the village idiot...:o
Ofcourse in some cases its good because it prevents irrational decisions but on other hand i think situation turn worse from bad if two people who don’t agree on greater issues are stuck in the position because divorce is out of question.Their kids have to suffer as well. Anyhow i just think thats another reason why arrange marriages donot end up in divorce.
As to the significance of topic i think its a good topic whose to say its stupid? I saw somewhere in this forum a thread about holding hands sounded extremely foolish but it was there.
Now, how did I know you were going to say that…