Re: Arranged Marriages - Time Savers?
the same problem of "not knowing the person well" can arise in an arranged marriage as well.....
I have personally seen really sad cases where some really disturbing stuff about the groom was hidden from the girl (it is still a mystery whether her FAMILY knew about it or not) and then a few months after the marriage it leaked out. They got a divorce.
some people say marriage is a gamble....i think its more of a struggle but at the same time there should be atleast an initial sweetness and warm-feeling-all-over that FOR ME ATLEAST comes through the idea of being with someone i have loved for some time and have shared some memories with. but its different for everyone. a friend of mine actually finds the whole idea of getting to be sexually intimate with someone without knowing them very interesting lolz...