Re: arranged marriage
Great suggestion Zobia.... Sup Sup you HAVE to talk on that topic, will give you a lot of insight. Also follow your instincts, the way a person speaks, looks at you, etc. says a lot about their character...... and human instincts are usually very accurate. (I was gonna write female :p)
Your whole life based on a decision made in 4 weeks? I wouldn't recommend that. You could always meet them, then go back.... maybe exchange some e-mails on certain topics, get to know the person a bit more, then decide.
If someone's in a hurry, that would definitely be suspicious (i.e. only for citizenship). So take your time.
Why don't you talk it out with your parents first, ask them to introduce topics while meeting with the guy... maybe they can ask the questions and you can just listen and try to gauge how the person is.