Arranged Marriage and all that hoop-laa

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Re: Arranged Marriage and all that hoop-laa

@Reha

I do not understand what is stopping you from making your point and standing up for yourself? The fear of having to leave your home? Leave! Do you realize you’re playing with fire? TWO lives are at stake here…not just yours. His too. What do you think he will get if he marries you and figures out that you dont even like him? Disappointment? Resentment? He might hate you for saying yes when you actually meant no.

PinkOrchids, what made u stay when ur parents said to get out of the house if u didn’t go ahead with the match, was it that u didn’t want to leave or that u had nowhere to go?

Part of me thinks it might give them a wake-up call if u walked out tho the best thing would be to stay with a sympathetic auntie or relative so ur family can’t then turn around + lie and say u walked out to go and live with a bf or something..

And wow Sajania, good for u for standing up for yourself..