Arranged Marriage and all that hoop-laa

Re: Arranged Marriage and all that hoop-laa

Her happiness is in her hands. She has choices to make. She can either say no to the marriage as virtually everyone here is recommending. But to say no is her decision. We don’t know what she’s going to decide because none of us are in her circumstances - we don’t know everything about her backstory. If she doesn’t or can’t say no and goes through with the marriage, what then? Who’s responsible for her happiness then? I think she shares in the responsibility for her happiness - that’s what I’m try to say.