Re: Arranged mangni…
in my case i 100% disagree with that. What if you meet her while she is going through a bad patch?? when i look at my self, sometimes i have a week or days when i am worried about college/work/home, where i am not what i usually am. Also i am a very social, and friendly person, i think i am very confident too, but when ever i meet someone i don’t know i get really awkward as what to talk about, and stuff because i don’t know the person, and i don’t know how to talk to them without knowing how they are, but that phase only last for a little while and as soon as i get to know that person i am my self. a lot of my really good friend told me that they thought i am a very maghroor/mean person at first but once they get to know me they realized i am not like that at all. i will really really hate if someone judge me while i am on my bad patch, or due to any reason not my self that day.
i really don’t think few controlled meetings can give you a clear version of rest of your life. it can give you a clue, which i have right now without meeting him.
i am pretty sure i am using my brain well enough. i have weighted other important things before making up my mind.
only because dating/having a talking relationship isn’t in my list of priorities, doesn’t mean i am saying yes to this engagement blindly.