Re: Arranged, Luvranged, or Love marriages?
^Firstly, a lower rate of divorce is not an indicator of more successful marriages.. As has been pointed out a million times divorce is not an option for many (if not most) desi couples who’ve had arranged marriages..
Secondly, most rational believe in balance + give and take in relationships.. ‘killing your own desires’, ALWAYS sacrificing etc often leads to bitterness or resentment.. Do you honestly think we should be saying ‘mashAllah’ to such relationships?
Divorce rates in some Arab societies are comparable and in some cases higher than those in the West.. don’t know why ppl are still so blind this.. Arranged marriages in DESI societies have lower rates of divorce but in other parts of the world it where women are able to remarry more easily and there isn’t so much stigma obviously things are different..
Anyone who thinks how successful a marriage will be depends on whether it’s love or arranged needs their head examining.. and a reality check..
Low ratio does nt mean successful ..i agree
I did not say only one person ll hav to sacrifice what i did say was mariege cannot be successfull unless they know how to sacrifice and i blieve arrange maried couple are more capable of sacrifice than love maried couple. ( psyclogically speaking)
Which arab country?