Arguments between couples

[firenze]

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You couldn't be a great couple if you didn't have arguments every once in a while. It's a sign you're being real with each other and not fake. Do argue but with respect & honor in mind for your spouse.

[Mirch]

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In other words whenever you say something, someone will be unhappy.

I agree with you.

[hareem01]

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There should be no arguments between couples. People who say it's normal, it's love blah blah are lying.

[TLK]

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There should be no arguments between couples. People who say it's normal, it's love blah blah are lying.

when we say 'argument' we dont mean phainkoing bartan at each other.

[hareem01]

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when we say 'argument' we dont mean phainkoing bartan at each other.

You're talking about having a debate, right?

[coolgirl]

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Argument between couples can be healthy if it stays as an argument. Hubby and I argue over things but we don't get direspectful. I can't imagine having the same take on everything for us both. We are both different as far as personality, habits etc.. and an argument here and there helps us understand the other half and his take on things!

[hareem01]

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Argument between couples can be healthy if it stays as an argument. Hubby and I argue over things but we don't get direspectful. I can't imagine having the same take on everything for us both. We are both different as far as personality, habits etc.. and an argument here and there helps us understand the other half and his take on things!

But I'm sure you become frustrated sometimes?

[sweefs]

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Pfft. It is not about being irrational and indecent. It is just human nature, everyone is irrational once in a while. We argue and fight with the people we love the most, not because we are jerks by nature but because we are subject to the normal limitations of being a human. Emotions, feelings, being upset, sad, irritable, there could be something bothering you. What we can't be all the time is perfectly rational and sane and politically correct.

So yeah, **** happens. What really matters is the ability and willingness to discuss and resolve things and move on.

Exactly that.

[Enigmatic]

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too much sugar and honey without spice isn't too nice :D

[Niksik]

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[goddamniamsoawesome]

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I told Mr Topo he resembles the Cat in the Hat, and therefore I wouldn't respond to him unless he spoke in rhyme. Now he refuses to talk to me at all. Sigh.

Dr. Seuss <3

[nidasak]

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two different ppl from different family backgrnds and personalities, ofcourse they will argue!! Argument just shows difference of opinion. Without argument there is no fun but then again a couple shudnt cross the limits n drag the fite/argument. Life is about getting to know each-other n learn abt each-others personalities and then respect that. Not insult them on it.

[rolla_coaster]

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YuN to ankheiN milaNa bhi achA nahi.
par mileiN tou churana buRi baat hai.

[BlueBells]

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@goddamniamsoawesome

Dr. Seuss <3

Dr. Seuss was awesome. Mrs. Geisel is nice too, pretty active in the community in our neck of the woods but is just wasting his money in some meaningless causes. Such shame.
I like how she personally gives away free cake on his birthday every year though.

[Khumar]

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@NomiCA

Can’t you people just watch Dr.Phil???

You do realize he’s not a real doctor.

@philosophy

as long as people don’t argue over the same stuff over and over and over again…and don’t pull out 50 year old arguments…or when theyre one-sided and it’s more about winning.

or putting the other person down or showing how powerful you are, etc etc etc

Good point. I agree. If the issue is resolved, then no matter how tempted one is, it should never be brought up once again.

@TLK

Nope, cant happen unless they cant speak and hear.

I dont want to be all religious but we learnt from Hadees that moments came when even Hazrat Aisha (RA) and Prophet Mohammed faced such situations in their married life. If it could happen between them, it will happen between common folks.

@rolla_coaster

YuN to ankheiN milaNa bhi achA nahi.
par mileiN tou churana buRi baat hai.

[NomiCA]

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@Murgi

You do realize he’s not a real doctor.

oops..you got me… i thought thats how you recognise him…if i said Phil…u woudn’t know who it was…

[Hadeel]

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@Shak09

I never get mad. I khee khee all the way

I wonder how you look like when u khee khee?

sadkay wari going on baray bhaiya