Arguments between couples

Lifestyle Relationships
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No, my parents are chill. But when it happens I am scared :teary1:

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LOL No, I’ve seen it happen with many people, like they are super nice when they get to know someone new, (and this isn’t strictly a romantic thing, but with platonic friendships as well) But once a bond is established, they can take the other person for granted or snap easier at them, when before they would should more restraint.

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Abbay, not your parents house, your house when you get married! Uff why do i have to explain everything :mad:

awww :hug: I know the feeling kiddo

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I dunno, for me it's like, I know you better, so I can be myself with you better. You only get mad at the ones you love or care about. What's the point of getting mad at a complete stranger?

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Ohhhh I'm stupid :(

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pat on head

We know that :)

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If you're mature you learn so much about your partner during arguments and its one more way to come closer as a couple.

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This.

But, like Slims said, you show restraint with strangers putting your best foot forward. But like Murgi is saying, with the ones you're closest to, you can take down all the barriers and totally be yourself in all of your incarnations, which includes being funny, silly, or argumentative.

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It's one thing to get mad or argue with someone clse because you feel comfortable enough too, and I get that completely. It's another that you start taking them for granted because of the closeness. Not everyone is like that, but I have seen it in enough people to know it happens, whether it's a natural occurence, or a personality trait I dunno.

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I don't know any couple that doesn't argue or fight. How is that possible? There's 2 different human beings living in the same home...you just cannot agree on everything. Yes, you can learn to argue sensibly but hey, we all have a dark side!

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Arguing (sensibly) is a way to show care.

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I never get mad. I khee khee all the way :chai:

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Unless someone is married to a statue, they are bound to argue. Healthy argument is very good for healthy relationship. Make sure, you are not mixing argument with fights.

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Oh yeah, for sure that is a bad thing. That shouldn't be happening in the first place.

Agree.

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Hey, so what is the difference between arguments and fights then?

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Can't you people just watch Dr.Phil???

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I do not say anything because I want to be happy and keep her happy too. Therefore there is no fight or argument.

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In other words whenever you say something, someone will be unhappy.

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as long as people don't argue over the same stuff over and over and over again...and don't pull out 50 year old arguments...or when theyre one-sided and it's more about winning.

or putting the other person down or showing how powerful you are, etc etc etc

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Nope, cant happen unless they cant speak and hear.

I dont want to be all religious but we learnt from Hadees that moments came when even Hazrat Aisha (RA) and Prophet Mohammed :saw2: faced such situations in their married life. If it could happen between them, it will happen between common folks.