Do you think a married couple can go through their entire lives never arguing once? If tiffs and arguments can happen between family members, then how come husband and wife are immune?
For those that say that is possible, why?
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there might be differences in POV like everywhere thats natural. But if the couple is mature and sensible they know how to handle it and they never let their house on fire.
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I reckon that is the stuff our teenage girls' Disney dreams are made of.
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come out of that favourite disney world of yours, J and open your eyes. Things are changing and education, need for survival is making every one very much aware of the hazards that can break their marriage and actions that can rather sustain it. Call it compromise or diplomacy or whatever you may, people do lead a happy married life for years and years and never complain.
Not every couple is irrational and fighting and indecent and all that. Decent and sensible people would never make mountain of a mole like usually happens in couples.
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That's not humanely possible! :D Also i believe arguments are only there where two individual minds are involved and its perfectly healthy. Suna hai is se pyar bi bharta hai ;) :p.
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come out of that favourite disney world of yours, J and open your eyes. Things are changing and education, need for survival is making every one very much aware of the hazards that can break their marriage and actions that can rather sustain it. Call it compromise or diplomacy or whatever you may, people do lead a happy married life for years and years and never complain.
Not every couple is irrational and fighting and indecent and all that. Decent and sensible people would never make mountain of a mole like usually happens in couples.
Pfft. It is not about being irrational and indecent. It is just human nature, everyone is irrational once in a while. We argue and fight with the people we love the most, not because we are jerks by nature but because we are subject to the normal limitations of being a human. Emotions, feelings, being upset, sad, irritable, there could be something bothering you. What we can't be all the time is perfectly rational and sane and politically correct.
So yeah, **** happens. What really matters is the ability and willingness to discuss and resolve things and move on.
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Oh man, they happen ALL the time especially if it's a new relationship. Things that didn't bother you at all start getting on your nerves. Key is to communicate with the other person and not let it boil over. If the couple work on it together, they more than likely get out of it much stronger.
sigh if only I acted upon some of the things I typed here sometimes.
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I told Mr Topo he resembles the Cat in the Hat, and therefore I wouldn't respond to him unless he spoke in rhyme. Now he refuses to talk to me at all. Sigh.
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I would hate to be in such a relationship..... I love couple arguments.... Imagine a mrried life with no make up sex.....BORING!!!
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Do you think a married couple can go through their entire lives never arguing once? If tiffs and arguments can happen between family members, then how come husband and wife are immune?
For those that say that is possible, why?
Arguing and minor tiffs are healthy too sometimes imo. They help a couple find out more about each other in a strange way
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there might be differences in POV like everywhere thats natural. But if the couple is mature and sensible they know how to handle it and they never let their house on fire.
It is not humanely possible to never ever get into a fight. No matter who it is. I am not talking about serious physical arguments here (guy slaps woman, woman throws a vase at guy). However, mature persons are able to sort our their differences after they disagree with someone. This becomes even more important IMO when a spouse is involved in the argument.
Pfft. It is not about being irrational and indecent. It is just human nature, everyone is irrational once in a while. We argue and fight with the people we love the most, not because we are jerks by nature but because we are subject to the normal limitations of being a human. Emotions, feelings, being upset, sad, irritable, there could be something bothering you. What we can't be all the time is perfectly rational and sane and politically correct.
So yeah, **** happens. What really matters is the ability and willingness to discuss and resolve things and move on.
This.
I would hate to be in such a relationship..... I love couple arguments.... Imagine a mrried life with no make up sex.....BORING!!!
giggles uncontrollably
Arguing and minor tiffs are healthy too sometimes imo. They help a couple find out more about each other in a strange way
:D
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Just sayin what I um heard :D
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Must be a wise person that said something like that.
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Not too wise :)
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If you say so.
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No.
How can a Pakistani couple NOT fight?
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Familiarity breeds contempt
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Widdul jaffers will be having a war in his house every day, won’t he 
Soooo…marry someone new every month? 
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Maybe it’s me, but a relationship without tension, or the push/pull dynamic and arguments does sound boring. Where’s the passion?
It sounds like the parties to the relationship are indifferent to one another - but hey, what do I know 