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That's what she said!
ROTFL.
anyway, i disagree with the people who are telling you to relax and that some guys are like that. because i then wonder, what is it going to be like for you when you two get married and live in the same house? are you going to pass each other in the living room and the kitchen with just one liners? you need to tell him about your concerns, because it won't just get better by itself.
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Give your time to someone, calling that person up, talking to her/him, shows that you respect that person, you value that person, that you are considerate, polite and caring.
If someone does not give you the time now and says he is too busy, what is he going to be like after marriage. Marriage in that situation just becomes a chore. Friendship is also an important part of marriage. They he cannot be a good friend then how is he going to become a good husband.
I guess it depends on what expectations are and how much self-esteem you have, which will determine what you are prepared to settle for in a relationship.
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yeh, i have the same issues with my ‘honay-wala’ but the people on GS made me realize that even though its a problem,the world isn’t exactly falling apart…just say your prayers and then ask God, ‘please God,if this guy is messing with me,please make him lose his gaari,bungla, bank balance and kapray jootay before the wedding’…you’ll feel better! i always do 
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Just ignore him for a little while woman - he will be fine.
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I am wondering what work these guys do that leaves them with no time for upto 3 weeks...
If a guy's job keeps him that busy now, wouldn't he continue to be that busy even when you get married? Unless ofcourse if he's putting in extra time now to leave more leisure time for later.
But in the case of differing views on how much you should talk when you're engaged, it shouldn't become a huge problem (provided he'd like to be -emotionally- close to you once you're married).