Arghhhh!!!!!!!!!

[Mirch]

Re: Arghhhh!!!

@AbraCadabra

Don’t u get annoyed when your husband/fiance/bf doesnt care. I just hate it so much. If he (my fiance) doesn’t talk or give the slightest news of how he is and whats up its all okay with him. I mean i know he is fine but whats the big deal if he just comes out of his shell and initiates something himself. He hardly drops an email himself, hardly starts the chat even when he sees me online, hardly asks about health if i am unwell. Its so annoying!

I hate to be the clingy needy sort of girl but its so annoying. Its every girl’s basic need to talk to their guy. We do get to converse properly but that’s like once in 2-3 weeks that too if my luck strikes! I know he is busy with his work & and it is a demanding job but i am already tired of being understanding on this thing. I have a right to some of his time too. Once in the blue moon he does drop an email which too is a one-liner. Wow what a progress! I know for sure he isnt interested any where. But i fail to believe he is always busy. He has the logiv of ‘the lesser the better’ .. Arghh what ever!

This is when we girls resolve to emotional and sensitive schemes. I tried not contacting as well. For almost 2 days and he didnt correspond either. Now what am i supposed to do .. keep waiting for him to after ages give me priority as well. I hate to be the demanding sort and i am not liking my needy self either but i cant find a solution but to initiate and keep in touch myself. For him,i dont think i exist much. I know myself and that if i keep running after something so long i get sick of it and stop caring myself too and i fear that may happen and i stop caring as well. Its not something good to happen. also, he already knows that i want to communicate with him and there are my expectations as well.

This post of yours is a living proof that you have excellent communications skills , use them on him for a change.