Re: Are you trying?
^ This! I know two women that have been trying for a few years and going through IVF. One of them even had a miscarriage during the early stages of a pregnancy and did not tell anyone except HER immediate family about that pregnancy/miscarriage. Neither wants to be reminded of why they don’t have biological children…especially when they’re attending weddings, dawats, or even working at their job. The one that had the miscarriage…being asked within weeks/months after that miscarriage and being reminded of that loss was VERY difficult for her.
I don’t understand why people do not realize what a personal topic this is. It’s basically asking a woman if she and her husband are using any form of birth control when having s*x. 