Hmmna
March 22, 2013, 1:42pm
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Re: Are you trying?
OMG. Just tell the woman that you would like to save her embarrassment in the future but these type of questions are considered rude (ghattia?). You know that she doesn’t know, that is why you are informing but people may come to wrong conclusions about her and she may become the center of gossip. Or just ask to adopt their cute little baby or grand baby. That will shut them up fast
Well if the women talk about you not having children because you don’t like them, blah, blah, blah, kids will think that too.
Respond to the kid " Whenever your Mother will let me have your little brother. Not only will I have a baby like your cute brother, I will have your cute brother! Won’t that be fun?! Go talk to her to give him to me"
They will think you are eyeing their kids and won’t bring up the topic.
this was one of the worst bit of my trip to Pakistan this time. I was playing with my husbands niece and an UNCLE not even an Aunty told the kid that dnt you know that your Aunty doesn’t like kids. I was horrified and really caught off guard.