losing temper is one thing but becoming aggressive and destructive as a result of it is certainly loserish, a little possessiveness is ok, even ehalthy for a relationship, but when it reaches paranoia where u keep tabs on the other person and dictate their social circle it turns loserish, alternating between extreme mean and sweet cycles is also not normal, a reasonable person is consistent in his/her behaviour! I don;t know how anyone can justify the outlined behaviour in anyway. these things get worse over time, you only get a sign here and there when the person is courting u and once they have bagged you they you r in for a treat! The article tells you to look out for recurring patterns of the above mentioned traits in a person and steer clear of them while you can. Pretty simple, no?
You are right.
Mild symptoms are very common, but this article is stressing on when a certain line has been crossed consistently on several of those traits.
Thing is that the one who is suffering does actually know she/he is in a stinking relationship. Why they dont get out of it??
- Fear of social stigma
- Fear of being alone...possibly forever
- No self-confidence to carry out the separation process
- Inertia...thinking that at least I am ok and nothing "really" bad has happend to me this time. This inertia will only rid itself when they come across a possibly life-threating or other eye opener situation where something snaps...or from some outside intervention.
**Mall **For the sake of your future baby dont take the risk of falling pregnant unless your relationship can stabilise (if it can). Children suffer unbelievably...It will hurt you more than anything you have experienced.
It may seem "Bollywood" like symptoms, but some incredible things do happen in real life. If you think that these things happen on screen and in fiction, then please thank God for your situation!