Re: Are you career oriented/professional girls willing to marry down?
I agree that there has to be attraction and chemistry. This was back in the 90’s early 2000’s when they were going through the whole rishta thing.
I have a lot of cousins in their thirties who wanted an Adonis with a Phd, 7 figure salary and no relatives way back in their 20’s. Now they’re having trouble attracting middle income professionals. Sometimes you have to look at what exactly are you bringing to the table that a potential rishta can’t get elsewhere.
The guys you are looking at seem to be rigid and very set in stone. A guy should be able to adapt to any setting/scenario and be able to hold good conversation across a breadth of topics and issues. Me personally, I’m comfortable in my own skin around uneducated wannabe gangsta types as well as wannabe elitists/snobs. Remember, it’s not about the strongest, it’s about the one that can adapt - he survives!
I’m sure you’ll find your other half very soon, you gotta kiss a few frogs to find your prince!