Are you career oriented/professional girls willing to marry down?

[taffer87]

Re: Are you career oriented/professional girls willing to marry down?

Maybe its just the way I am inferring this and apologies if it is incorrect.

“relaxed guy with a job in finance, consulting, IT business, legal something”

Why do you thinks guys in those fields aren’t that educated? Jobs in most of these fields can be much more high profile and demanding than medicine; and entry requirements and the calibre of people for working in the best places/employers is very high.

@PyariCgudia

Honestly, looking back the guys who are easiest to talk to, laugh with, and enjoy time with are the dudes who AREN’T THAT educated. Shoot me for saying this, but I’ll take a relaxed guy with a job in finance, consulting, IT business, legal something or the other that requires him to SOCIALIZE regularly, and where he has developed a level of charm. Charming, fun, a guy with a nice smile - I can manage that.

Every time I see that they’re an MD, I cringe. Because I know I’m going to get an elitist, snobby jerk. I’d like to think that all docs out there are geeks like me who started with nothing, but it’s not the case. A lot of folks come from doctor pedigrees, or from very rich families that were able to afford this kind of education for their kids.

Meanwhile, have met A LOT of super nice guys whose jobs are more mediocre, but the guy is just really into it. In fact, I’m ok with a small business owner even. As long as the guy knows how to read, knows how to write properly in English (text messages written like a 3rd grader - turn off!!!), and can have a conversation - that’s important.

Best dates I ever went on - the dudes did not have their *** together at the age I did. Maybe because of that, they’re easier to talk to.

If anyone knows of a dude who didn’t have their crap together at 22, but as long as he knows good English, let me know!! I’m open to it.