Are you a loner?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Are you a loner? And is your answer variable or dependent on any of the following?

-your stage in life – you as a child, when you moved away from parents, went to school, got married, etc
-where you are – work, home, out and about, etc
-anything else?

EDIT: also, has it changed since/when you have a smart-phone?

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Re: Are you a loner?

I am a loner since 2010.

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Re: Are you a loner?

When I was at uni I had periods of being a loner - sometimes after a long period of being social I love a weekend completely alone - i spend that time catching up on tv/movies and beautifying.

I also like it when parents and bro and out and I have to house to myself for a while - again I beautify and play music loudly!

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Re: Are you a loner?

People can be alone too even if they have people around them ....

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Re: Are you a loner?

Do you prefer to be alone. When you’re around others, do you seek out conversations or tend to yourself?

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Re: Are you a loner?

true

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Re: Are you a loner?

I grew up being very much a loner. Ages 17-23 I became a social butterfly, however I still believe I am a loner at heart. I still like socializing and being in the middle of all the hulla-gulla, however, I love solitude! I don’t mind being alone at home (prefer it actually), it does not bother me when my husband is away ( i do miss him, but don’t freak out staying home alone) and I actually like going to movies by myself sometimes.

Does that sound weird? :hmmm:

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Re: Are you a loner?

I prefer being alone.
When i'm around others I might seek out conversations but that happens rarely .

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Re: Are you a loner?

Khatti! me too, going to the cinema alone is one of my favourite things to do!

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Re: Are you a loner?


u mean:
**
tanhaaiyoN meN tujh se hum-kalaam rehtaa huuN
auqaat-e-hujoom meN sunsaan ho jaataa huuN**

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Re: Are you a loner?

I found out im a melancholy loner (using one of those online quizzes:bummer: )

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I'm a loner on the weekends because I just get too tired after a week of being social XD

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Total loner. I am way more social at work, and that too, I will excuse myself and go somewhere to get my work done alone.

But yeah generally - loner.

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I've been a loner pretty much all my life.... right now, I am out of my parents house and studying in an other city that is about 8 hours away by road...

After spending about 3 years here... I am still pretty much the same.... After taking my classes, I have a lot of time on my hands and I just spent the rest of the day by talking to myself and doing stuff alone....

whenever, I get the opportunity to have some conversation with people... It really feels good afterwards... I don't know why I feel like that...

I would really love to have someone's company and be emotionally connected with.... I feel so cheesy while typing this....

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aha I like that part

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I am usually a loner with few very close friends. If they are not around or are busy, then yes I am a loner. I wouldnt have it any other way.

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Re: Are you a loner?

i guess. i dont need to be around too many people. only some people hold a special place in my life--in a sincere way. quality over quantity i guess : D

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Re: Are you a loner?

That's interesting. So you like the social interactions -- it's just initiating the process and stepping out of the norm that you find difficult?

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For those of you who see yourself as loners, why do you seek out interactions on GS?

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Re: Are you a loner?

I like people, enjoy good company. But there are times when I like to be alone.