Islam came and gave unprecedented freedom to women to leave their homes, choose their spouses, own property, and participate in society. Did all of this extra freedom encourage them to become wild and unmanageable? Many of the sahabiyat worked, some as battlefield nurses who were constantly in the company of men. According to you their husbands should have been protecting them at home.
No where in Islam does it say that a woman needs to be at home in purdah. Being active in society, working, and so on does not make one cheap or filthy. You really need to read more (and probably get out of the house as well).
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First of all I would like to say some words about the thread starter's subject.
See you are some how right, In Pakistan what i have seen is men want there wives to be their slaves, which is inhuman, but the reason behind that, who put this in the mind of a man that woman should be your slave. who.. WE did that....
WE means, our society....mostly when a girl grows up she is taught to obey her husband not to say anything dont do this dont do that, as a professional and I have global PR I have alots of people around me they are just living their lives as a compromise, they dont have any kind of internal connections with their spouses, what is that.
Just because when man disrespects a woman, the nation will be out of track.
Simple and straight we respect our woman, she will respect our values and give us a nation who will make mark in this world.
2ndly to Amana:
Amana you are quite right but what she is saying is todays girls are doing like this, go to Lahore and see what is going around, alots of dates would be noticed some of them might be doing some fishy or vulgar acts as well, the high class people think they have money they dont need anything their kids dating out with friends late night and the clothing is see worthy really, If a girl will remove her little clothes from her belly or arm everyone notices that, she might enjoy that things but we boys are thinking something else...
you know better than me, as you are a girl... do you think we will let that girl go easily who is looking like this. Never...
In the same time of you will see a lady with a dupata on her head or scarf everyone will see but they will comment, how nicely clothed and she is a gentle lady. and this an that. right or wrong.
i dont say dont fashion do fashion but there should be some limits. normally girls will wear what they will see in pictures or so called dramas on television.
and try to do the same as in drama regardless that drama is a fcition but the life is reality.
:) i hope its clear to you Amana