nadz!!! one more topic from you!
gosh I wished I was sooooo analytical before marriage. Compared to all your pre-marriage questions I think I was literally not “actively” thinking.
I mean - I was like just go with the flow and enjoy life! So I did enjoy life.
I think all those questions you have before marriage is cool - and NOT so cool 
Cool because you will be one smart girl and know what to expect.
Uncool because - there is NO FUN in life if you go all “programmed” up.
You are not allowing to just life take it’s turn on it’s own - so you can enjoy. You are being “interrogative” at each and every thing post marriage. It may take the fun out, because you are going in with an EXPECTATION. You will not be satisfied, because expectations are just like “fantasy”, which may not live up to your dreams in real life.
okay that was enough lecture…
now let’s have fun… 
I do like this post though
I’m all ears to the replying guppans 