Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? [Spinoff from Qandeel b. thread]

[BabaJi]

Re: Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? Spinoff from Qandeel b. threa

We all have done crazy and seemingly adventurous things in our teen years and early twenties.

Qandeel got caught in religio-political controversy. Her brother most probably was given her ‘Supari’. Meaning, he was paid by someone to erase her from the path. Kion k iss mein kuch parda nasheenon k bhi naam aate honge.

[BabaJi]

Re: Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? Spinoff from Qandeel b. threa

Dont make me too shareef man, it suffocates me. Nayak nahi Khalnayak hoon mein.

[KKF]

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to, jholi ke peechhe kia hai?

[BabaJi]

Re: Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? Spinoff from Qandeel b. threa

Mujhay kiya maloom. Kabhi choli k pichay dekha hi nahi.

[KKF]

Re: Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? Spinoff from Qandeel b. threa

Huzoor, maiN ne jholi 'arz kiyaa, aap choli samajh baiThe…
**
itne bhole na bano
haaye, itne bhole na bano
Had ke andar ho sharaafat to adaa hotii hai
Had se baRh jaaye to Khud aap apnii sazaa hotii hai**

[terebina786]

Re: Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? Spinoff from Qandeel b. threa

These are the kinds of stories that make me embarrassed to say I’m Pakistani.

And Lord… if she’s a prostitute, I would hate to see what some people would say scrolling through my IG or FB. I’m glad my parents left that country and never looked back.

May Qandeel Rest In Peace.

[mahool]

Re: Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? [Spinoff from Qandeel b. threa

So true…

She had just opened a few buttons in a society that Manto described as being “already naked”.

http://tribune.com.pk/story/1143722/qandeel-star-condemnation/

Her brothers and two married sisters were present to perform her last rites.

Talking to media personnel, Qandeel’s father, Mohammad Azeem said he would pursue the case against Waseem.

“She was my son, not a daughter. I have lost my son. She supported all of us, including my son who killed her,” he added.

His sons were unhappy over “her achievements” and turned against her even though she supported them, he said.

The residents of the village condemned the killing of Qandeel, terming it “a brutal act”.

This comment from across the border…

                   Qandeel might be or not be an inspiration for  others but for me She was and will be an inspiration as a strong girl  who wanted to be herself and just did what she felt like.

she made me smile and even i didnt like her from my heart but after her death I dont know why this girl has won my heart and i cry for her.
Im from India and I remember laughin first time watchin her t2o message to afridi .She was amazing…she was just an entertainer tht was her only crime.
Please Pakistan stand up against this plz..Just like India stood up after 2012 raoe case.
Please Pakistan please I plead you please she was as much Ours as much Sharukh and salman are yours.
Celebs have no boundaries.
My Humble request to all my Pakistani friends please dont let this innocent girls death go in vain please put emphasis on government so as they make amends in their current judicial system pertainin such horrific deplorable crimes.
May her soul rest in peace.You will not be forgotten Qandeel…

http://www.dawn.com/news/1271492/qandeel-laid-to-rest

[SID_NY]

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@terebina786

These are the kinds of stories that make me embarrassed to say I’m Pakistani.

And Lord… if she’s a prostitute, I would hate to see what some people would say scrolling through my IG or FB. I’m glad my parents left that country and never looked back.

May Qandeel Rest In Peace.

Baji Baji wuts your id there?

[SID_NY]

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I just wanna know if she was a prostitute, stripper, faahisha or wutever is called here, wut should her clients be called?

Like we know last she was seen, that too courtesy her own photoshots, in a private lavish hotel room of Mufti Qavi, who is apparently a very well known Aalim-e-deen with a beard and large topi on head. What is the judgement about him? I mean our beloved @mocpk has flooded her posts with titles for Qandeel and even many of the posters here, but not a single word about him. So is mufti qavi still be called a muslim scholar?

If I’m not wrong, a mufti is the one who issues fatwa i.e. official religious decree. Will he still be continuing issuing fatwas?
Or should we call him Zaani Qavi instead of mufti Qavi now?

[PaRi_Si]

Re: Qandeel baloch killed

@Theorist

Born in a Muslim family and spent my childhood in Pakistan actually. The entire world knows my stance on religion. You didn’t smoke anything out. There are Pakistanis like me and they are growing in numbers. I am sure your kind will be outnumbered soon so people can live in peace without being judged. I know this forum and users pretty well and as far as I can tell most of the sane “fake liberal (according to you)” comments are coming from Muslim Pakistanis. By the way, what are you doing in America? Shouldn’t you be in Pakistan, the perfect land with a perfect religion. Who is a hypocrite now?

AMEN SISTER!!!

@Theorist

. By the way, what are you doing in America? Shouldn’t you be in Pakistan, the perfect land with a perfect religion. Who is a hypocrite now?

BURN!!!

[terebina786]

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@SID_NY

Baji Baji wuts your id there?

LOL! But seriously I googled her pics and I was like they’re basic IG things - dresses, makeup, etc. Nothing pornographic about it.

@SID_NY

I just wanna know if she was a prostitute, stripper, faahisha or wutever is called here, wut should her clients be called?

Like we know last she was seen, that too courtesy her own photoshots, in a private lavish hotel room of Mufti Qavi, who is apparently a very well known Aalim-e-deen with a beard and large topi on head. What is the judgement about him? I mean our beloved @mocpk has flooded her posts with titles for Qandeel and even many of the posters here, but not a single word about him. So is mufti qavi still be called a muslim scholar?

If I’m not wrong, a mufti is the one who issues fatwa i.e. official religious decree. Will he still be continuing issuing fatwas?
Or should we call him Zaani Qavi instead of mufti Qavi now?

'Tis the calling card of the patriarchal society. It’ll be forgotten like nothing ever happened. I’ll be surprised if he’s even held to some responsibility.

[SID_NY]

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@terebina786

LOL! But seriously I googled her pics and I was like they’re basic IG things - dresses, makeup, etc. Nothing pornographic about it.

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Its not even about that TB. its just that even if she is wearing something objectionable in others eyes, its still her choice and her life. She is not compelling anyone to see it. Dont watch, switch the TV channel or wutever media you are following. But you just cant have the cake and eat it too. Its that simple.
Wutever she was doing she was still feeding a family of 16. And now when she is gone, all wut we gotto do morally is just remember her good aspect.

And for good god sake, we should also stop comparing her with Anna Nichole smith or Kim kardashian. Baksh den is bechari ko, jaane den sukoon se.

[terebina786]

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@SID_NY

Its not even about that TB. its just that even if she is wearing something objectionable in others eyes, its still her choice and her life. She is not compelling anyone to see it. Dont watch, switch the TV channel or wutever media you are following. But you just cant have the cake and eat it too. Its that simple.
Wutever she was doing she was still feeding a family of 16. And now when she is gone, all wut we gotto do morally is just remember her good aspect.

And for good god sake, we should also stop comparing her with Anna Nichole smith or Kim kardashian. Baksh den is bechari ko, jaane den sukoon se.

I couldn’t agree more. It’s the same thing I said in the Zahra Haider thread.

I don’t understand why men (or women for that fact), particularly in Pakistan, seem to think that a grown woman’s life/body/choices are for them to police.

Like I’ve always said “do you”… Life is too short to live by other people’s standards.

[Theorist]

Re: Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? [Spinoff from Qandeel b. threa

@terebina786

I couldn’t agree more. It’s the same thing I said in the Zahra Haider thread.

I don’t understand why men (or women for that fact), particularly in Pakistan, seem to think that a grown woman’s life/body/choices are for them to police.

Like I’ve always said “do you”… Life is too short to live by other people’s standards.

I think there is a difference between what Qandeel did and what Zahra did. Qandeel made no sweeping generalizations about Pakistan and what it wants. As far as I know, Qandeel may have played with politicians but didn’t play a politician. Zahra on the other hand, insists the entire Pakistan is as horny as she is and that we all somehow crave multiple sex partners. In my opinion, Zahra and Qandeel are completely different and should not be compared.

[SID_NY]

Re: Are we being hypocrite to honor killing situation? Spinoff from Qandeel b. threa

A very good list of the women who might have “offended” masses in Pakistan by doing something that couldnt be approved.

18 Extremely Offensive Things Women in Pakistan Have Ever Done

I would definitely include Malala which not sure how author skipped here.

[terebina786]

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@Theorist

I think there is a difference between what Qandeel did and what Zahra did. Qandeel made no sweeping generalizations about Pakistan and what it wants. As far as I know, Qandeel may have played with politicians but didn’t play a politician. Zahra on the other hand, insists the entire Pakistan is as horny as she is and that we all somehow crave multiple sex partners. In my opinion, Zahra and Qandeel are completely different and should not be compared.

I’m just generalizing. I compare them based on the fact that they’re both outspoken Pakistani women who basically go against society’s norm and live life how they see fit.

If people compare Malala to Qandeel, then I’m sure Malala supporters would be offended.

[Southie]

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^ Malala supporters probably would be sufficiently open minded not to get off dedicated at the comparison.

[mahool]

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[Anjul]

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Isme wo checks wali shirt wale Dani bhai jaise lag rahe hain

[SID_NY]

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@mocpk

LMAO. Okay. If you say so.

I agree with the gender hypocrisy. Still doesn’t change the fact that she WAS a prostitute irrespective of her cloths and is not “brave”.

Imran Khan is a leader though and before this person’s comments i didn’t even remember he had a kid out of wedlock. Guess why? because he has done more good to overshadow his misdeeds. Still it is true, men are not prone to the same moral standards as women.

I found a concluding and agreeable song for you.. and me… and for everyone else..

I hoping you’ll be ok with this since you repeatedly said you are a moderate person. And then we all can have a group hug and dedicate it to Late Qandeel Baloch.