Re: Are the present days muslims following the ritualistic part of the religion ???
Try explaining this to the average person who is hell bent on polygamy. I have heard of stories, wherein people when they want to marry more, they just divorce their existing wives to keep the total at 4. It is in the light of these instances it is important to look at polygamy from a different perspective. There might have been situations wherein polygamy was essential. These do not exist anymore and I believe it is time to stop it so that people do not take advantage. It is a thought and should be discussed with an open mind.
I believe it is something like you let go of certain pleasures in this life and you would be entitled to more in the afterlife. The promise of unlimited se* in heaven is causing trouble in our times and I do think it is important that we look at it from the proper perspective. There are people who say that the heavenly pleasures are just a metaphor and I agree with them. I believe the pleasures of heaven would not be worldly and the mere presence/sight of God would be greater than everything else.
I agree with you on this one, though life would have been easier with interest