We are inviting our team coach and his new bride to dinner tonight, she is a French-Tunisian and has a PhD in engineering. She is way more qualified than Zak so I am thinking why would an educated girl marry a not so educated man. Zak is an athlete so obviously good looking.
One other person contacted us for their Doctor girl and they are not picky about education and employment just good looking and polite.
So are men’s looks becoming a bigger thing now. I see a lot of young guys under a lot of pressure to get buffed.
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to be honest, I don’t think so. that’s actually rare that educated girls are going for uneducated men. usually if the girl is educated she wants someone who is educated and earning at least as much as she is .
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We just finished dinner with the lovely couple, OMG she is stunningly beautiful and speaks three languages, she is an expert in artificial intelligence. We messed up a bit and should have asked dietary preferences, I cooked a lot of lamb as Zak loves lamb But Dr. Nahla eats only white meat.
You would be surprised how much in demand the athletes are.
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My cousin just recently got married a classmate of hers, they both graduated from a well known dentistry college that they studied in together. He was her batch mate. Even though the guy is a dentist now, he got really good grades etc, they dated for 2 years before getting engaged and finally married. She gave him ultimatums about going to the gym etc, about getting beefed up and even on the wedding dictated everything from clothes to hair style, and yeah, my brother-in-law got facial etc done too from a well known male spa and salon. It was her condition whilst they were dating, that he went to the gym. Well known thing in our cousins circle.
Point being that even if the guy isn’t uneducated, or lesser educated, good looking educated girls do have a hold on the guy. And yeah, everyone loves men with buff bodies.
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I dont think its the case as most girls dont want bimbo guys. Females are more likely to marry guys less good looking then them than vice versa.
Isnt it guys who use their financial strength to get good looking girls?
Unfortunately there are plenty of male visa diggers and gold diggers. Its also unfortunately mostly guys who have insecurity complexes when their wives/sig others earn more than them.
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I am just reading allover the media that guys are under a lot of pressure to look good. If a girl is financially independent then why would she compromise on looks? Many very intelligent guys are getting buffed also, our best athlete just qualified as an engineer. I dealt with this PHD from Harvard and the guy was totally buffed.
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You can’t generalize. There are all kinds of ladies out there with all kinds of preferences. A guy not having six pack abs might be a deal breaker for some but there will always ladies out there who’ll find you attractive just the way you are.
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I am saying a lot more than before and certainly not everyone. I deal with young people and in the western culture, I see most A class girls with good looking guys. My nephew had gained a bit of weight while he worked and did his MBA at the same time and was getting rejections and then he worked out to get fit. If good looking guys are not in demand then why is the supplement business and gyms exploding everywhere?
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I really want to know the ladies who make not having six pack abs a deal breaker!
Finding a good rishta is already so darn hard that sometimes the requirements are more obnoxious. I’ll be happy to run into a good, decent guy!
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They had been looking for my brother’s boy for around 7 years now, He is 6-2, Engineer, MBA. Great family, religious values. no drinking dating etc and he got a bit chubby as working full time and doing MBA at the same time that is demanding. Sometimes he got rejected as he bought clothes from Walmart, sometimes as he wasn’t 6 packs. Now he lost the Chubb and has been promoted to a VP and rishtas are falling from the sky. I guess when you get a prestigious title things change really fast. People who rejected him are now looking for him. Life is all about competition and guys will have to compete for the top females.
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Assuming there is one to one ratio of guys and gals, some gals will have to make do with us non fit guys
The only solution I can think of is polygamy where a woman prefers to join a fit man’s harem rather than tying the knot with a guy who doesn’t look like Adonis.
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A few decades ago an unfit guy who had a decent income could land a beautiful woman, now it seems that unfit men will end up with unfit women especially if the girl has a professional education. As wonderful Miss @Illuminate says that we all bring a certain value to the relationship and that is a sum of looks, personality, morals, and finances. since many women are becoming financially independent guys income becomes lower in needs. My observation is that good looking people are more faithful.
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The trend I am seeing in my circle is that most guys/girls are taking care of their bodies, eating healthy and staying fit. Not every guy I know has 6 pack abs or every girl has a ‘thigh gap’ but overall everyone’s in control of their physical health. I think when girls are educated and financially dependent they look for a guy with a similar background but most girls I know would rather have someone whose caring, understanding, respectful, loyal and supportive as compared to having a stud that doesn’t have the above qualities. Good looks have nothing to do with being faithful. That comes from having good morals and upbringing. Girls are using their education and financial strength to get a guy that mans up and provides them the support they need to both build a complete and strong household and family together. Looks fade over time but ambition and hard work stays for life. If a guy can demonstrate that in his work ethic and how he carries himself (and that can include how well he carries himself physically to some degree) then that’s marriage material!
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Julia is Bi and cheated on Charlie with a girl and technically shouldn’t have been called cheating, Now the well-known greasy girls in their age group do stuff that is beyond belief. I feel that homely men are very insecure and feel that the only way they can get someone is by manipulation. They start facing rejection since childhood and learn different ways to get attention. I know many homely guys who incessantly hit on girls and good looking guys are often not that desperate, they know they will get someone when their heart desires.
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Why are we assuming that good looking guys can’t be caring and faithful. If upbringing is solely responsible for values then how come two brothers raised in the same house may have completely different values. My brother had made a similar comment about looks assuming that an average or below average girl will make a better wife and I totally disagree. I have seen some fairly homely girls who weren’t the greatest partners
Our reptilian brains are prewired to be attracted to good looking people. When I looked at the results of my son’s road race many guys in 60s beat many guys in 20s and 30s so people can maintain fitness at an old age also.
Ryan Gosling is dubbed to be a pretty good husband.
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errr..they are not assuming that. Illuminate is just stating that Good looks does not automatically equal faithful. Which is right! However and thankfully Good looks and morals aren’t mutually exclusive is and you can and will find people who are attractive and faithful.
As well two brothers can have different friends, different teachers, different experiences in life. One can be rich and the other can be poor. Being raised in the same house hold does not equal upbringing, it is a part of upbringing as a whole.
