Are parents in danger of becoming second-class citizens?

[hareem01]

Re: Are parents in danger of becoming second-class citizens?

@hanibal

Just for the information of the few on this forum, Kids, Infants are normally in the phase of growing and learning, it is their nature to test their limits and see how they can get the things done, crying and shouting and biting is part of the game, they are in process of learning and they won’t learn until they were taught…

Now when the kid is gathering, they often get scared or shy, and then they want to be more attention of their parents then at home, so in order to get the attention, they start politely and then get into the highest pitch and start throwing things around just to force their will on the parents and parents just do not simply ignore the stuff, they ignore the protest they ignore his crying just to teach him that by doing all that s/he is not going to get the attention…

The little humans need to taught from day one, so one day they can be useful members of the society, i am sorry if some human thinks that it is not their duty to contribute in developing these little people…

little more to add, all these decent-attitudes and social behavior of the grown-ups is not result of one day BANG… it is long lengthy process which is still there…

I know if I invited a friend over and her child was throwing a tantrum I wouldn’t just stand there and wait for the mother to soothe the kid, I would try my best to distract the kid somehow. This is what I mean when I say people losing tolerance with kids in general.

We can all wash our hands off by saying that my kid never does that but I believe a child throwing a tantrum should not be something alien to the world, tantrums are part of growing up, some kids do it some don’t, kids are so unpredictable and you just can’t blame the parents for that.