Rajput Yaar, I think I m getting what you are saying. To me, Muhajir is a beautiful term, and it is not an ‘isolationist’ term. Even our Prophet (PBUH) referred to himself as Mohajir when he left Mecca. If people use it in a demeaning manner, then it is ‘their’ problem, and not the problem of ‘Mohajirs’. You see, I am often called ‘Mirzai, etc., and honest to God, I never take offense to it, that’s what I am, and to me it is not an insult, but a compliment.
Ahmadiji, I am not arguing whether "Muhajir" is a beautiful term or not-- rather it is outdated and lost it's usefulness after migration from India ceased. Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) was a muhajir when he arrived in Medina, but after living there was he still a Muhajir? I think the answer is obvious. It is inaccurate to call yourself a migrant after you were born in Pakistan and your ancestors came from India something like half a century ago. It is isolationist because the Muhajir identity is only forged by a common migration experience, or rather not even that, as the East Punjabis are well integrated into Pakistan and don't refer to themselves as "Muhajir." How muich longer will the urdu speaking community isolate itself by a false term that is no longer relevant?
*I don’t like the term ‘Urdu Speaker’, because I speak better Urdu than Mohajirs (please don’t take offense, and you should know that people with the most contribution to Urdu Literature come from Punjab), because the term ‘Urdu Speaker’ is a very narrow-minded way to define a large and diverse community. In Karachi, for example, there are Gujrati Memons, Bihari, Bengalis, etc., etc. and Mohajir covers pretty much all these groups. If I were a Bihari, I would like to be referred to either as Bihari or Mohajir, but not as an Urdu Speaker. *
You and I may speak Urdu with the purest of Lucknowi accents, but is that our mother tongue? No. I am well aware of Punjab's in particular Lahore, contributions to the Urdu language but that still doesn't change the reality that India's Muslims consider it "their" identity. Urdu speaker is not narrowminded at all because those Gujerati memons, biharis all lay greater importance to Urdu. As for the bengalis they consider themselves just that, Bengalis not Muhajirs or Urdu speakers. I can actually go with the idea of calling a former migrant from Bihar to be called Bihari, atleast thats more reasonable.
I guess you and I don’t see eye to eye on this issue. You Mohajir you!
[In a large obese African-American female voice] OH NO U DIDN'T!