Hello friends,
This is a question to all the girls and boys, and girls please don’t feel harsh. I am just asking a question not generlizing it.
I was in love with a girl when i was in Pakistan ( Now i am living in New York ). I am from jhelum and she was from Rawalpindi. We were University friends. My Mother and Sis also went to her house to see her. My parents were agree for our marriage but only after my elder brothers’ marraige. We were used to talk a lot but one day she suddenly told me that her marriage had been fixed and i need not to call her again. Then she got divorce and again started to talk to me. But once again she ditched me. After that i lost my confidence. i try to avoid girls and think that they always think about the benefits, which they can get from their male friend. I have alot of respect for girls but when it comes to girl friend or wife relationship i get suspicious.
Please tell me what should i do? Anybody who is serious to help me pm me i’ll tell the whole story.
hi friend,
i feel very sad for what happened to you ,
lekin let me tell you, ke har larki buri nahin hoti, aur har larka bhi bura nahin hota.
yeh sab ya to insaan ki parvarish mein hota hai, ya phir halaat usey aisa bana dete hain.
dukh ki baat yeh hai, ke aisa hota hai...log ek dusre ko use karte hain, cheat karte hain, sirf lamhe bhar ke faidey ke liye...lekin yaad rakhna friend; aise log kisi ka dil tod ke, ya dukh pohoncha ke kuch hasil nahin karte, yeh sirf khud ko cheat kar rahe hote hain.
i know what you can feel, but friend, koi baat nahin, keep on living good life, yeh soch kar ke tum achhe ho to INSHALLAH ALLAH tumhara behtar karein gey.
its part of life, yeh soch kar agey barho. Mein jaanti hon its difficult to trust again, but just remember, Trust insaan peh nahin, ALLAH peh karo! aur wohi apke waseeley banata jaey ga! ameen!
Feel free to speak.
best of luck!
-angel-
Not everyone's the same. We don't even know why she stopped talking to you all of a sudden. Kia pata unke ghar wale khilaf thay? You never know koi bhi wajah ho sakti thi :)
Aur agar kisi pe sari umar trust nahin karenge aisa bhi nahin ho sakta kiu keh har ek pe shak ker ke bhi zindagi nahin guzari ja sakti :) This is all part and parcel of life. Yeh bhi zindagi ka ek pehlo hai, embrace it kiu keh is ka koi aur hal bhi nahin :) You have to accept the fact that this worls consists of all sorts of people: good and bad. Sab achay aur sab buray nahin hotay. Shayad aap se judge kerne main ghalti howi. Par is main bhi koi raaz hai. Agar aap ke sath aisa na hota to aap ko experience kaise hota dunia aur logon ka?
yup … try som1 else … there r tons of others waiting for u :)…every gal is nt cheap lik ths but majority r :D…stil i believe tht u wil get a good peace if u jst keep ur eyes open
hey ppl! we're not here to do boy vs girls fight. there is a friend in problem, suggest him somthing to cheer him up.
once again, har larki ya har larka bura nahi hota...it happens...har tarha ke log hote hain dunya mein...
don't forget ke apke parents bhi hain. woh kuch aur nahin, mard aur aurat hi hain...so respect each other plz.
who cares if u ver having any problem … 
