Approaching a pappoo

for most of the part, advancement or no advancement, I cant think of any action that can be regarded as wrong doing on a minors part, no matter what the situation is. And there is no argument that those who reach the extremes of molesting a toddler are the scumbags.

I think my real question is about the early/pre-teens and those who are ‘bold’ in their actions when dealing with adults vs those are are not, what is the difference and if it could be prevented.