Re: Approaching a girl you don’t see often?!
It’s your life and how you choose to live it is up to you in every way. The choices we make define us and our future.
Differences of aqeedah as well as other aspects of the religion will come up. My employer in first/second year uni was Ismaili/Aga-khani and as much as I loved her and she treated me so well too we had our differences.
I asked to pray during my shifts and though she encouraged it she didn’t pray herself. They pray at different times, have different places of worship that sunnis cannot attend, she didn’t fast during Ramadan and didn’t believe going to hajj was a part of her faith.
If marriage truly is the end goal and you’re planning to not just “kick it” with this girl you’ll have to think about the future. For me spiritual/religious compatibility is really important, probably just as important as being compatible in other ways. For some people it is something that they can overcome. Definitely something important for you to think about. Also, if religion is important to you and you’re looking for someone to add to it then it’s quite important to find someone with similar religious or spiritual values.
I see where you’re coming from, that stuff is important to me. I think she does do Ramadan and has a pic of the kaaba on fb, I don’t really know anything about other sects.