Re: Approaching a girl you don’t see often?!
If you want to go down the dating route then yes that’s haram. If you want to go down the marriage route then only seeing someone from afar three times is not a good basis for marrying them. Are you planning on dating or proposing marriage? “Getting to know” a girl without intention of possibly marrying her is haram. It’s not complicated. It’s your life, your consequences. Peace.