We were having this discussion this morning at breakfast, and this poor coworker of mine who is a great catch was ruefully recounting failed attempts at catching the attention of ladies who had caught his attention.
He’s like, well I can’t go up to them and tell them I like their arse. That was his reply to me when I said, why don’t you go up to them and give them a compliment.
So, how do you initiate discussion with someone you might think is cute? I haven’t done this in a long time, because its been such a long time that I’ve had a real life crush. Every guy I see, I get repulsed by.
I think the basic rule in all situations is to stay in control . If he can control himself then he can control others . So I think acting normal as he usually do with others should work . No need to put any extra effort into it .
I think the basic rule in all situations is to stay in control . If he can control himself then he can control others . So I think acting normal as he usually do with others should work . No need to put any extra effort into it .
Things might end up staying in inertia forever. I say do take initiative, but dont go excessively frantic.
Have a casual conversation and then ask them out for coffee or something. If they say no, then move on, if they are the least bit interested, they will say yes. Then take it from there to gauge further interest.
That’s because those simple, nice, honest compliments like “nice tush” can lead to complicated consequences such as broken teeth, erm bruised appendages…men hitting the man who hit on the woman so simply but so loudly and crudely out in the open.
The best way to approach a person is to begin by smiling and trying to make eye contact. If they respond then that's a sign that they are most probably interested so then just go up and say hi and take it from there. Inititating conversation is easy, provided the person is showing interest. Using lame pick-up lines will most probably not result in much except for a giggle from the girl and then her walking of.
Offer yourself to him as a [dummy] Object of desire. For practice
here few lines he can throw at you and should be on target.
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