Anyone notice this about pakistani women

Sara516 · June 28, 2011, 8:01pm

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hanibal:

sorry if it is rude, but often there is one example which terrifies others.. e.g. not all Muslims are terrorists, but action of few who don't even represent 2% of the muslims population make all muslims looks like a terrorist...

same applies in social circle, to give an example a very close friend of mine was married to his cousin who is ABCD, i can tell you the guy is humble and nice by nature, he does everything a man can do to comfort his wife but nothing seems to satisfy her, she do not hold on to her words, she tries to manipulate him, she talk about Pakistan and its norm like it is something disgusting, try to prove how rich, and good culture she has came from ( tells a lot by her behavior), do not respect her MIL, always pose as a victim...and the guy don't like to go home any more ( after 4 years of marriage), he tries to stay out-side as much as he can, try to over-work him so that he don't have to see her... and the only thing is holding him with her, is the two little kids they have... and he loves them like anything in the world and don't want to loose them over stupid laws... so he is stuck in very bad situation.... and now, everyone, close to him or knows little about him, try to avoid their ABCD/BBCD cousins....

I agree not all are bad but you know perception theory

im sorry your cousin is in a bad situation but not every abcd is like that.

or wait....any woman who even slightly deviates from the "norm" of what a Pakistani-brought up girl is, is the big bad old abcd.

Muzna · June 28, 2011, 8:09pm

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careful now.....you are gonna get called "high and mighty"

TLK · June 28, 2011, 8:12pm

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are you implying that Nadz is not parsa?

toba toba

PyariCgudia · June 28, 2011, 11:29pm

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I see that my words of wisdom fall on deaf ears.

Sara516 · June 28, 2011, 11:58pm

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I feel your pain sistar

CEO1 · June 29, 2011, 12:38am

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Nadz you sound like a 5year old spoilt brat. NO offence just how you come off.

pak-one · June 29, 2011, 4:54am

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.......And this is why this section of Gupistan is littered with nonsensical garbage.

Respect to the real Pakistani/Muslim women out there, who are putting up with a lot more for their families. No doubt, the culture has many issues, but MANY people here are straight up messed up.

cutefifa · June 29, 2011, 9:25am

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nadz is complaining about her MIL that she works too hard. She wants her to sit idle all day and leave her house on nadz. And then in her next post she will be complaining “my MIL doesn’t do anything all day and i work like a servant ”

hanibal · June 29, 2011, 9:42am

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i wonder if you have red the last line of my reply!!!

kakaballi · June 29, 2011, 10:34am

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LOL. Being active improves health, not damages it.

"Pakistani women" run around the household, others run in gyms.

diamond321 · June 29, 2011, 11:01am

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nadz123:

esp the older lot, i dont understand why they have to work their bones off during their younger days and even now at 50+ are running around doing heavyload work, messing up their joints....and then theyre in pain. alot of it. cant walk. etc.

However, they are PROUD of this. they are proud or seem proud to say that they are running around after their husbands/housework/etc and seem happy to let the world know that hey i may be on crutches/have severe joint pain/cant feel my legs/broken back/etc it seems like its something to be happy about...why would you do that? my MIL used to move beds, all myherself, cos she said noone esle did it...sooooooo...and now your paying for it. but she seems proud of it and looks at me likehuhhh your nothing compared to how i was/am..is this a competition.......?

FOR ME, maybe i dontcare, but i would neverrrr run myself raggered for anyone, never move a bed myself,to hell with it if no one else does it.....why ruin your life.... what i ont get, is these people pray to god, namaz, for their health, why? IF I PRAY for my health, il make damn sure im not lifting the entire bedroom furntiture by myself, or even worse, is when my dad/FIL gets up to get THEIR OWN GLASS OF WATER and youll see my mum/MIL 1000 mile an hour karate chop them before they get to the watercooler, and do it themsevles, however much they could be ill themselves...

my MIL is ill these days, her husband looks after her, she feels guilty she told me biwi khidmet kay liye hoti hai, not husband, we should be looking after him..........wtf....

nadzz it's not fair that your MIL is giving you tanay and constantly putting you down by telling you how much work she used to do and etc etc. But ignore her because she is sick and help her & your inlaws in anyway you can not because it is your duty or you are a slave but because they are your FAMILY and for insaaniyat atleast you can do what you can possibly do. Time is always changing today they need you tomorrow you may need them and vice versa.

I knew a lady who used to give tanay to her bahu kay humnay 8 bachay palay hain ....well paida kiye thay to palay hain kisi par ahsaan to nahi kiya ? some women needs to boast and feel superior and the best way they find is to give examples to bahu about how great they were.

yourfriend · June 29, 2011, 8:57pm

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u got it all wrong… read her first post again.

cutefifa · June 30, 2011, 8:55am

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I just summarized her post in few lines…