nadzz it’s not fair that your MIL is giving you tanay and constantly putting you down by telling you how much work she used to do and etc etc. But ignore her because she is sick and help her & your inlaws in anyway you can not because it is your duty or you are a slave but because they are your FAMILY and for insaaniyat atleast you can do what you can possibly do. Time is always changing today they need you tomorrow you may need them and vice versa.
I knew a lady who used to give tanay to her bahu kay humnay 8 bachay palay hain …well paida kiye thay to palay hain kisi par ahsaan to nahi kiya ? some women needs to boast and feel superior and the best way they find is to give examples to bahu about how great they were.