Re: Anyone notice this about pakistani women
esp the older lot, i dont understand why they have to work their bones off during their younger days and even now at 50+ are running around doing heavyload work, messing up their joints…and then theyre in pain. alot of it. cant walk. etc.
However, they are PROUD of this. they are proud or seem proud to say that they are running around after their husbands/housework/etc and seem happy to let the world know that hey i may be on crutches/have severe joint pain/cant feel my legs/broken back/etc it seems like its something to be happy about…why would you do that? my MIL used to move beds, all myherself, cos she said noone esle did it…sooooooo…and now your paying for it. but she seems proud of it and looks at me like huhhh your nothing compared to how i was/am..is this a competition…?
FOR ME, maybe i dontcare, but i would neverrrr run myself raggered for anyone, never move a bed myself,to hell with it if no one else does it…why ruin your life…
what i ont get, is these people pray to god, namaz, for their health, why? IF I PRAY for my health, il make damn sure im not lifting the entire bedroom furntiture by myself, or even worse, is when my dad/FIL gets up to get THEIR OWN GLASS OF WATER and youll see my mum/MIL 1000 mile an hour karate chop them before they get to the watercooler, and do it themsevles, however much they could be ill themselves…
my MIL is ill these days, her husband looks after her, she feels guilty she told me biwi khidmet kay liye hoti hai, not husband, we should be looking after him......…wtf…
Nadz is the reason why the Desi in UK/USA prefer a Pakistani born and brought up girl… and if anyone, for any reason have urge to marry an ABCD or BBCD, then please refer to nadz posting in Life1