Anyone lived together before marriage?

I think I said wrong way but I didn't mean to be mean.

I just told that as a gori (I didn't say chichori that means mean) she can't understand urdu. I know that and I wanted to let her know its hard for her to understand my urdu. So what is mean in that. or how I have to tell that I know ur what?

I didn't mean to hurt her. I wanted to let her know.

You ppl make fuss of nothng. I don't understand.