I know you are a gori as you mentioned in your post. Yes it would be hard for you to understand. Don't worry.
Okay that was very mean. Forums work like this: There will be people that agree with you, and there will be that will disagree with you- because everyone comes from different life experiences.
When you put people down like they way you just did, you ruin your own credibility. Even when you are saying something that may be factual and makes sense, people will not take you seriously.
Mamaof3 was giving you a sincere advise, she meant no harm. Please be concious of the way you are coming off to people. Imagine that you are Mamaof3, when she reads your comment- what is she going to think you?
Islam teaches us to be reseptful to each other, be mindful of other's feelings.