Re: Anyone here old enough to have gone through the rishta process for their own kids
In my family, at least when before my sister got married, my parents straight up asked for the diploma copy or job letter. In other cases, if a person is a physician or high up in management their profile is already on hospital’s/company website so its much easier. Usually, sincere and educated people don’t seem to mind. These concerns are valid. Would you marry your daughter to a totally strange guy (even though you have been talking to them, asked other people/neighbors etc about them) who lives in a different state, 100 of miles away and claims to be XYZ and have a job at xcx?? With so many stories going around that people are not being honest before marriage, its good to cover your bases. Marriage in our culture are not disposable like most westerners nowadays. Its a huge commitment . If I go for an arranged marriage, and someone ask for my degrees, it wouldn’t be a problem for me