ok well see, so many people in pakistan, esp the female cousins, are a uk size 2 or 4 or basically veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyy skinnyyyy, no meat.. ok so now a healthy girl from the uk ( me) as size 10/12 goes to pak, and mashallah im liking me at the moment, alot of exc and hard work, have a nice hourglass shape, so not skinny at all…but anyway us healthy girls get called moti AND these skinnies are called smart…
so anyway my other uk based cusin shes a size 8 to 10, she also gets names, cos shes still bigger than them
so what can we say to these people…stuff i have thought of is too rude…so please some nice but witty to the point, notes needed in order for us to retaliate and shut them up....
oh god dats so silly of them just be like do i eat from ur pocket..i wud say just say atleast im happy the way i am when i wear clothes ppl looking knw its a girl but when u guys wear clothes it seems as if clothes are hanging in a hanger:P and if u think all the above is rude den just ignore dem babes and be confident with the way you are
Folks in Pakistan can make or break your self-esteem. That is just the simple truth. If you happen to have meat on your bones and/or browner skin, it's useless trying to fight hundreds of years old conventional thinking about fair skin, skinny body. Just handle yourself with grace and gain enough self-respect that people would be ashamed to make cheap remarks infront of you. Responding with so-called witty comments would just become an endless, exhausting and disheartening process. Who wants that.
ok well see, so many people in pakistan, esp the female cousins, are a uk size 2 or 4 or basically veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyy skinnyyyy, no meat.. ok so now a healthy girl from the uk ( me) as size 10/12 goes to pak, and mashallah im liking me at the moment, alot of exc and hard work, have a nice hourglass shape, so not skinny at all.....but anyway us healthy girls get called moti AND these skinnies are called smart....
so anyway my other uk based cusin shes a size 8 to 10, she also gets names, cos shes still bigger than them
so what can we say to these people...stuff i have thought of is too rude...so please some nice but witty to the point, notes needed in order for us to retaliate and shut them up....
thanks
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Nads recognize your enemies ASAP.
Don't make new ones.
Ones who are workable don't offend them. One's who are hope less don;t spare them.
Knock your hubby out with you charms quickly. Take tons of chocolate for younger cousins.
Keep quiet in front of older ppl.
Don't open too many fronts at same times. Make good friends with non mean cousins. So they could become your support group.
Don't see every one as a gourp!!! Sort them out as above.
Don't lower yourself to their level. You know how much it hurts when they say stuff to you. So don't retaliate. Be the better person. At least on the outside.
;)
On the inside...well, we don't get punished for our thoughts. So just imagine in another 5 or 10 years, after these people are married and are probably letting themselves go, they aren't going to be to be so "smart" themselves while you'll still be exercising and eating right, Inshallah and will look totally awesome compared to your formerly "smart" cousins.
niksik, i dont know where would this beling then..sorry......
yeh hmmmmmm im working on it, thing is im fair, but colour is natural, its not man-made, so my cousins who are darker, well its not their fault they are dark, so i cant say to them well your black so sort your face out cos thats something that cant be changed. while weight is something thats your own fault...so if someone is overweight or not smart enough, then its their own fault...hence the rude comments from the skinnies....
There's no need to be rude.. they're dark u're fair.. they're skinny u're not. People come in all shapes and sizes.. U've done u're part by exercising and eating healthy.. and u're broad-built.
There's no need to be rude.. they're dark u're fair.. they're skinny u're not. People come in all shapes and sizes.. U've done u're part by exercising and eating healthy.. and u're broad-built.
broad built...makes me sound like some body builder.....nooooooooooooooooooo
