Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

[yoda121]

Re: Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

@Paheli00

1. The “easiest” way is to find someone who feels the same way as you do, and whose parents also feel the same way as you do. Otherwise find someone who is willing to go against her parents. Actually, just look for an orphan who wasn’t raised by any family at all…as cruel as this sounds…this would be the most “easiest”.

2. You “think”? It’s your own dad. You need to have a open/direct conversation with him and be 100% sure that your dad feels the same way. I’m assuming your mom is not in the picture since you did not mention her.

3. The idea that weddings are for the bride and groom only and they get to do only what they want…that is a western concept. For desis…weddings have ALWAYS been about family/community.

1. Or someone that’s also been married before and appreciates that hungama doesn’t actually get you anywhere.

Oh well, shame desi people are so concerned about the community, it really is an alien concept to me, you don’t get many desis doing what they want and not giving a toss what other people think, something Brits seem to excel at, producing eccentrics.