Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

[yoda121]

Re: Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

@Paheli00

LOL. You did not answer one single one of my questions. I never said anything about rasams or costumes or any hungama for anyone. My questions was very specific in regards to the guest count.

To be honest…with your attitude…especially if you view your own parents, your future wife and her parents only as “long chain of people” whose wishes/opinions you don’t care about at all and have no intention of fulfilling…if your view of a wedding is to do what YOU want to do and completely ignore wants/wishes of parents/future wife…then it will be very difficult. Its one thing for you to completely ignore your own parents wishes…but to find a girl who will go against her parents and ignore all of their wishes…yea…good luck with that.

** Note: You have not mentioned anything about how your parents view weddings and whether or not their views are the same as yours. So I’m assuming that they also have certain “desi” things they want to see at their son’s wedding. If I’m wrong in my assumption, please feel free to correct me.

TBH I have been married once already, had the wedding of a 1000+ guest count, had a-z rasms, kept quiet throughout it all. Put it this way, my inlaws pressured my family to bring AS MANY people as we could to ensure their status in society was upheld (they turned out to be mentals)

Anyway, I guess the easiest will be to find someone whose wishes match your own, someone who also doesn’t want to invite hundreds of people to the wedding surely?

I think my parents (dad) in this case isn’t bothered, he got all his rasms out last time, so he won’t be fussed again.

Also when did weddings stop being the bride and grooms special day where they get to pick how it should be played out.

Also, when did it all become about guest count anyway? Only khan mentioned that decreasing the number of people from 300 to 50 is Kanjoosi, why is it kanjoosi to only want to invite 50 guests?