Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

[Paheli00]

Re: Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

@yoda121

You prove my point exactly, this kind of stuff is exactly what I don’t need, the long chain of people that invite everyone to a wedding with each having their input on what rasms and other addons there should be. All it needs to be is a nikkah and dinner.

One memorable wedding in my mind is the one of the local molvi where I used to live, the reception was literally a dinner, people came, ate dinner and left. No shor, no hungama, just like it should be. Plenty of people were invited to that too.

Oh, and NO silly costume for the groom, not sure about the bride as it was segragated.

LOL. You did not answer one single one of my questions. I never said anything about rasams or costumes or any hungama for anyone. My questions was very specific in regards to the guest count.

To be honest…with your attitude…especially if you view your own parents, your future wife and her parents only as “long chain of people” whose wishes/opinions you don’t care about at all and have no intention of fulfilling…if your view of a wedding is to do what YOU want to do and completely ignore wants/wishes of parents/future wife…then it will be very difficult. Its one thing for you to completely ignore your own parents wishes…but to find a girl who will go against her parents and ignore all of their wishes…yea…good luck with that.

** Note: You have not mentioned anything about how your parents view weddings and whether or not their views are the same as yours. So I’m assuming that they also have certain “desi” things they want to see at their son’s wedding. If I’m wrong in my assumption, please feel free to correct me.