Re: Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?
You prove my point exactly, this kind of stuff is exactly what I don’t need, the long chain of people that invite everyone to a wedding with each having their input on what rasms and other addons there should be. All it needs to be is a nikkah and dinner.
One memorable wedding in my mind is the one of the local molvi where I used to live, the reception was literally a dinner, people came, ate dinner and left. No shor, no hungama, just like it should be. Plenty of people were invited to that too.
Oh, and NO silly costume for the groom, not sure about the bride as it was segragated.