Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

Re: Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

Where did you get this 300 guests from? Who told you that having 300 guests is a “must”? Besides…you’re a guy right? So if anyone gets accused of being “kanzoozi” for having a simple/small wedding…isn’t it usually the girl’s parents? OR are you planning on insisting that you pay for the entire wedding out of your own personal money?

Also, I understand and accept that you barely know 50 people who you’d invite to the wedding. But what about the girl you’re marrying? Does she not get to invite anyone she knows? What about your parents? What about HER parents (especially since most desi weddings are paid for by the bride’s parents)? The ONLY one who gets to invite guests is you?