Any solution to this common poblem?

Huh? Who said this is cultural thinking alone? Are you contesting Islam too? This i what is in Islam too...It's just that it also gives women the right to ask for a seperate accomodation if his husband can afford it.

And please lets not make everything a contest...if he can do it why cant i?! males and females are different in so many ways...nature wise, emotionally, physically, etc so there are going to be things one can do and other cant, etc. For example, why do we expect guys to give us their seats while travelling on buses, or while sitting at an waiting area? or why does it have to be a male of the house who must go out and check the house/gate if there is a doubt that an intruder mite have enter the house? i have yet to see a female say no i will go and mange it.

WHY are we so insecure with ourself that we have to stoop to such comparisons?