Any solution to this common poblem?

Huh? So most love marriages end up in divoces so that means its a wrong idea to go for love marriages?. Seriously, Grow up!

If you believe marriage is union between two people only and their strong bond only then i guess i rest my case here. I don’t want to waste my time arguing with you beyond this cuz you clearly show your understanding of what a marriage is to you and i think its not even worth a discussion.