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age doesn't matter as long as there is love and intellectual parity.
Your absolutely right :)
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It’s easier to comprehend? Ufff it wasn’t an ‘order’ 
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lol
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give it a go :D
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my cousin married her cousin who is 11 years older than her, he stays at work all day and comes home and watches the news with his father and she is bored with her life....
what would happen 20/30 years down the line? who will still b fighting fit and who will b too old to do anything?
personal choice I guess, but I would not recommend it at all...!!
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^^that just might be the guy's personality and communication problems between the two, do you think it has to do with his age or that's just how the particular guy is that your cousin married.
of course i hope arabjaani doesn't rush into anything or do anything impulsive without thinking it through carefully. sometimes we're blinded by love about possible issues that might end up being problems in the future. but the TS knows this older man she is talking about better than any of us. he might not be anything like your cousin's husband
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Hmm yeah true, he may just be like that, but from what ive seen, he's a decent guy, when he was in his twenties he was interested in the stuff we all are in to, but obviously as you get older, your priorities and interests change.
If its a love marriage, then the age gap shouldnt really matter, because you two must have the same interests and all to fall in love in the first place so can get along easily... but if its arranged, then get to know the guy as much as you can before taking the plunge... personally, i think if a dude is still single at 35, somethins not right :/ !!
Agay, jo Allah ki marzi hai woh to hona hi hai... Allah behtari karain... Ameen.
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I go with yellowbutterly's opinion. However i still think if you can put away with the fella who is 12 years older than you than wish you best i guess.
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i never see age as an indication of how adventurous/fun or mature a person is. i've seen too many people acting much younger or older than their numerical age.
I know a 60 yr old man that still acts like a child and totally seems full of life and then there's a guy that was with me in college that was mature beyond his years. but i guess if you're going for an arranged marriage then the age gap would seem very very important to most people.
i just feel like compatibility, maturity, the way the person was raised, his/her values, whether they are respectful, all the other important issues that make a relationship/marriage work have nothing to do with age
age and maturity have nothing to do with each other.
You're right in saying that age and maturity aren't related. But what I was talking about was a generation gap which I think can be an issue. No matter how mature or immature someone is for their age there are bound to be some generational differences when the gap is 12 years. Obviously to each their own but I'm just sayin.